Thursday, August 7, 2025

Book Review: A Tea Witch's Crystal Brews by S. M. Harlow

Book Review: A Tea Witch's Crystal Brews by S. M. Harlow
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Last year, I had the pleasure of reviewing S.M. Harlow's A Tea Witch's Grimoire, so when Weiser reached out to see if I wanted to review her next book, I jumped at the opportunity. A Tea Witch's Crystal Brews expands upon A Tea Witch's Grimoire, this time with the help of crystals!

Harlow dives into the world of crystal grids and how to use them in your tea practice. While she cannot include a comprehensive guide to every crystal, she does offer a very detailed list of crystals and their intention and tea pairings, making it easy to develop your own recipes and rituals to suit every occasion. This is paired with an excellent guide to creating crystal grids, how they work, the meaning of the different designs (sacred geometry), and how to use them in your practice, with or without tea. I've honestly never read such a complete guide to crystal grids, so this was a first for me. I walked away with a lot to think about and how to incorporate crystal grids more into my own practice.

A Tea Witch's Crystal Brews gives some background in tea witchcraft, but I believe there is the assumption that you have read Harlow's first book and therefore may only need a refresher instead of an entire guide. Since I have read her previous work and written my own book on tea witchcraft, I felt her refresher was more than enough to get even new witches started on their tea witchcraft journey.

As before, A Tea Witch's Crystal Brews contains a large number of recipes and rituals, complete with moon phases, ritual ideas, and more. There is even a chapter dedicated to crystal elixirs! I loved the inclusion of crystal elixirs, the water from which can be used to brew any number of teas given that the water is safe to drink. Remember, not all crystals are friendly!

Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed the guides, recipes, and rituals in Harlow's latest book, A Tea Witch's Crystal Brews. I cannot wait to see what her future holds and if she will continue creating these fantastic recipe books! You can never have too many tea rituals in your life!



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Monday, July 28, 2025

Banishing the Unwanted: A Ritual to Banish Entities from Another Realm

Banishing the Unwanted: A Ritual to Banish Entities from Another Realm

A reader recently left the following comment on one of my previous posts, Elemental Magic: Earth Spells and Rituals:
"Can you do more earth spells? Like banishing someone from another realm spell? Or just connecting to mother gaia and her energies rituals."
Of course, I can do that, and I decided to start with the first suggestion, banishing someone from another realm. As a hedge witch, it's not uncommon to encounter spirits, beings, and energies in the Otherworld, and while I do my best to protect myself and prevent anything from coming back with me, it sometimes still happens. If something does happen to come back with you, or you notice something otherworldly has attached itself to you through other means, this ritual will help you banish it.

This ritual is for the stubborn entity, the one you have already asked to leave, and isn't responding to other simpler methods of banishment, such as verbally requesting it to go, banging pots and pans, or the burning of banishing herbs.

What You'll Need

  • Salt
  • Black or dark green candle
  • Light or match
  • Black tourmaline
  • Bowl of soil or access to earth 
  • Dried rosemary, rue, or black cohosh root
  • Charcoal disc
  • A written name/sigil/object representing the entity/energy 
  • A small shovel or spoon
  • Bell or chime
  • Offering to Mother Gaia, such as honey, wine, or quartz

What to Do

This spell is best performed during the waning moon.

Begin by grounding, centering, and cleansing your space and materials using your preferred methods. Next, draw a circle of salt around your ritual space and place the bowl of soil in front of you and the candle behind it.

Light the candle (and charcoal) and while holding the black tourmaline in your left hand, invoke Mother Gaia by saying, "Mother Gaia, ancient one, ground of being, giver of life; I call upon your strength and stone to cast out what is not my own." Visualize roots reaching deep into you from the black tourmaline and into the ground below you, drawing up Mother Gaia's strength. Feel her strength and perseverance fill you, starting at your feet and gradually spreading throughout the rest of your body.

Banishing the Unwanted: A Ritual to Banish Entities from Another Realm

When you feel filled with Gaia's energy, place your dried herbs on the charcoal disc. While still holding the black tourmaline in your left hand, pick up the written name/sigil/object representing the entity/energy with your right hand and say:

"By Gaia’s roots and ancient stone,
I cast thee out, now me leave alone.
Between this world and that, you fade,
Bound by Earth, the pact is made.
No path remains, no gate shall stand,
I send you back by Gaia’s hand,
To the lands beyond, the hidden realm.
From rock to root, your thread unwinds,
By sacred soil, all fate unbinds.”

Bury the written name/sigil/object representing the entity/energy into the soil and place the black tourmaline on top of it while you visualize the entity or energy being forced back into the Otherworld, the door slamming shut behind them. Sprinkle some salt over the burial and black tourmaline and waft the smoke from your herbs around you, your space, and the burial. While you do so, chant the following:

"Sealed by stone and guarded by soil, 
May no return disturb or spoil. 
With Earth’s embrace, I am now unchained.
Be gone, be gone, and not remain.

Close the ritual by ringing the bell or chime, snuffing out the candle, and thanking Mother Gaia by saying something like, "Mother of Earth, your work is done. I thank you for your assistance today. I walk in light, the battle is won. So it is, so it shall be." Offer Mother Gaia your offering by placing it outside in her soil.

Leave the burial undisturbed for an entire moon cycle before burying the spell remains away from your home or tossing them down a river.

Banishing the Unwanted: A Ritual to Banish Entities from Another Realm

Warnings/Modifications/Alternatives:
  • Remember, visualization is not necessarily seeing an object in your mind, but instead an incorporation of all senses to bring about the object or intention. When visualizing, it's more about creating those feelings than necessarily seeing the object or outcome in our mind.
  • This ritual can be performed outside if the entity seems to be attached to you and not your space. There is no need to dig up the spell remains if performed outside. If you decide to perform this ritual outside, bury the spell remains in your backyard or away from your property.
  • Do not leave a lit candle or charcoal disc unattended, and always have water or another fire extinguisher nearby.
  • If you cannot light candles, a black painted electrical tea light will work just as well.
  • If you do not have access to loose herbs, use a banishment incense as a replacement.
  • If you cannot burn loose herbs or incense, soak the loose herbs in warm water and sprinkle the water around your space, over yourself, and the burial instead.
  • If using rue, handle with care. Rue sap is phototoxic, which makes the skin more sensitive to sunlight. It can result in mild redness, itching, severe burns, and blistering. Dried rue generally doesn't contain any sap, so the risk of phytophotodermatitis is very low.
  • Black cohosh and rue are toxic to cats and dogs if ingested. Keep pets out of the room while burning or working with these herbs. After the smoke has cleared, the area is safe for them to return to.

Why You Did It

Understanding the whys of a spell (or ritual or recipe) is just as important as performing it. It helps you understand the process so you can modify the spell or ritual to suit your needs, and helps guide you in writing your own. It's my intention to provide these explanations so that you can build a better understanding of how spells are written and executed, so you can modify and build your own spells (the goal of my Spellcrafting Series). 

First and foremost, this spell is best performed during the waning moon, which is strongly associated with banishment. Since we are trying to banish forces or entities, the waning moon is the best time to do this. In times of dire need, you can ignore the moon phase altogether and work the magic you need to.

Next, salt was used to draw a circle around your ritual space and tools. Salt is naturally cleansing, purifying, and protective. In the mundane world, salt is used to preserve food as it is antimicrobial in nature. For this reason, it's also believed to protect and ward against unwanted spirits, entities, and energies. After cleansing and consecrating your space, the salt ring helps keep the positive in and the negative out of your sacred space, as well as aids in banishing the entity later in the spell when it is sprinkled over your burial.

Banishing the Unwanted: A Ritual to Banish Entities from Another Realm

The color black, black tourmaline, rosemary, rue, and black cohosh, like salt, are also associated with banishment, protection, and purification and are used for such purposes in this ritual. Black tourmaline is also naturally grounding, helping to connect you to Mother Gaia and the Earth, as well as helping to bind and banish the unwanted entity. By placing the black tourmaline on top of the burial, you are shutting the door and locking the entity away in the earth. Prior to this, the black tourmaline was held in the left hand, the hand of receiving, as we are attempting to connect with and receive the energy of Mother Gaia to banish the unwanted entity.

Gaia is an earth goddess, characterised by fertility, new life, creativity, receptivity, and grounding. However, because of her association with earth and therefore soil, caves, and other dark places, she is an excellent goddess to call upon when banishing entities, particularly those from the Otherworld. While Gaia is often seen as a nurturing mother figure, she is also portrayed as a force of destruction and chaos, capable of unleashing natural disasters and inciting conflict when she feels wronged or when balance needs to be restored. According to mythology, Gaia helped Cronus overthrow, castrate, and imprison her husband, Uranus. Later, she joins Zeus to overthrow Cronus and the Titans. She even sends her son Typhon to attack the Olympians and instigates the battle between the Olympian gods and the Giants. Needless to say, she is a force to be reckoned with and if you feel wronged by the entity you are banishing, Gaia will surely take your side and aid in their removal.

After connecting with the Earth and Gaia, an item associated with the entity is used to connect your ritual intentions to the entity you are banishing, tying the two together. Naming what we want to banish is extremely powerful, as names hold power. Knowing one's name is thought to give one power over the other, so if you know the entity's name, use it. This object or name is held in your right hand, which is your giving hand. In this case, you are trying to "give" banishment, using the energy you received from Gaia.
Banishing the Unwanted: A Ritual to Banish Entities from Another Realm

This item is buried, covered in black tourmaline, and salt to banish and send it back to the Otherworld, using the earth as a portal and the black tourmaline and salt as the door and lock. Once covered, the entity cannot return, and its energy is absorbed into the earth. This ritual is closed out by using the banishing herbal smoke to remove any residual energies from you and your workspace, and sealed with the ringing of a bell. Bell ringing helps remove energy and helps symbolizes the close of this ritual.

Finally, an offering is given to Gaia to say thanks, and the spell remains are allowed to sit for a full moon cycle to ensure the door remains closed. The spell remains can then be buried away from your home (to keep the entity away), in your backyard (for banishment), or thrown into a river (to cleanse and purify).

Want to break this spell? Invite the spirit, energy, or entity back, but I can't guarantee it'll be happy after you banished it. 

Remember to record this ritual in your Book of Shadows or use my Spell/Ritual Worksheet for reference later.

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To my anonymous commenter, I hope this ritual helps address a potential issue you may have and that it brings you closer to Gaia in the process. For everyone else, keep this ritual on hand just in case something follows you home you weren't expecting!



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Thursday, July 24, 2025

Book Review: Once Upon a Place by Holly Bellebuono

Book Review: Once Upon a Place by Holly Bellebuono
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Wow! Before I delve into the heart of my review, I would like to thank Llewellyn for allowing me to read and review what is one of the best nonfiction books I have read thus far this year. I must also preface this review with a disclaimer that this is not a traditional occult book, but instead a literary analysis of the meaning of places in legends, myths, folktales, and children's stories. If that doesn't sound like something you are interested in, then this probably isn't necessarily the best book for you, but I would implore you to at least give it a try.

Once Upon a Place: Forests, Caverns & Other Places of Transformation in Myths, Fairy Tales & Film by Holly Bellebuono delves into the world of fiction to explore themes and messages that are commonly found in the World Journey or Hero's Journey and how the lessons are conveyed through the use of different locations. The themes are so prevalent that they can be divided into distinct categories: the Cavern, the Deep, the Vessel, the Forest, and the Labyrinth. Furthermore, these tales feature similar character elements: Descent and Resurrection, Chaos and Void, and the Beast and the Guide. She explores a variety of myths from around the world, including not just the ever poignant works of the colonizers, but also tales from indigenous peoples in Africa, South America, and North America, with the expressed goal of showing this is not a Eurocentric phenomenon, but a human one. We are all linked by the stories we tell, and the similarities across cultures reinforce that the human condition is universal.

I absolutely loved her approach and devoured this book in two days. It is not a super-easy read, but Bellebuono is so engaging and thought-provoking, I struggled to put it down. In fact, I was reading snippets in between running dungeons and raids in World of Warcraft, and at one point, my friend told me to wait at the end of the dungeon while he cleared it so I could finish out a chapter. I was that engrossed in the information Bellebuono had to share with the world. Once Upon a Place is very clearly a labor of love.

So why would a witch and an occult publisher be interested in reading and publishing such a work that is clearly meant for the literature analysis world? Because the stories we tell have deep meaning and lessons that all of us can benefit from, especially the witch. As a witch who analyzes old stories to glean magical truth, Bellebuono has given me a lot to think about. Who is the Guide? The Beast? Where is this story taking place, and what does that mean for the protagonist? How is a Forest different from a single tree? A Labrynith different from the Vessel? These locations give a whole new meaning to the stories I have read dozens of times, and as I continue to read more of the Nordic myths, I will be looking out for Bellebuono's classifications.

It's not just in the analysis of ancient myths and legends, however, that Bellenuono's work is helpful. If you are into analyzing your dreams, reading tarot, or hedge riding, this book will be of particular use. Bellebuono ascribes meaning to what a lot of us would otherwise overlook. Thinking of my own hedge riding practice, I also descend into the Otherworld before ascending with enlightenment. I never really understood why until now: thematically, humans have always descended into the unknown before ascending with new knowledge, power, and strength. This is exactly what most hedge riders are doing as well, without even knowing they are doing it! Furthermore, understanding the meaning of places can help you better understand the messages and lessons being taught by your dreams, journey, or divinatory practices. How is finding yourself in a Forest different from finding yourself in a Cavern? Going back and reading through my past hedge riding journeys, I have realized I have been missing valuable information without even realizing it.

I cannot begin to express how helpful and enlightening I found Once Upon a Place. If you are interested in taking your practice to the next level, especially if you are interested in folklore, dream magic, hedge riding, or tarot. My only qualm with Bellebuono's work is the inclusion of Harry Potter, whose inclusion continues to perpetuate an incredibly harmful IP. I wouldn't let its inclusion stop you from picking up this book, though.

Upon a Place: Forests, Caverns & Other Places of Transformation in Myths, Fairy Tales & Film by Holly Bellebuono is available now wherever books are sold. Again, I highly recommend picking up a copy today!





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Monday, July 21, 2025

Magical and Medicinal Uses of Butterfly Pea

Magical and Medicinal Uses of Butterfly Pea
Gender: Feminine
Planet: Venus
Element: Water
Powers: Clarity, Fertility, Healing, Love, Lust, Peace, Purity
Magical Uses and History: The butterfly pea, a vibrant blue-flowering plant native to Southeast Asia, has long held cultural, medicinal, and magical significance, particularly in India, Thailand, and Malaysia. The earliest known mention of its uses comes from ancient Ayurvedic texts, where it is referred to as Shankhpushpi or Aparajita. In these texts, butterfly pea is mentioned as enhancing memory, promoting cognitive function, and reducing stress. It was used in similar ways across the continent, making it the perfect addition to spells and rituals related to memory, stress relief, and cognitive function. Drink as a tea to during studying or while working on a difficult assignment. Add the flowers to memory spell bags or jars, burn as an incense, or place near your bed to help you remember your dreams. It can also be used to bring balance and harmony due to its tranquilizing properties. As such, add it to spells and rituals to bring balance and harmony, soothe tempers, and promote overall well-being.

Across the continent in China, butterfly pea is associated with love, lust, and sex, particularly for people with female genitalia, due to the flower's uncanny resemblance to a vulva. It's due to this appearance that Swedish botanist Carl Linnaeus assigned butterfly pea to the genus Clitoria, a somewhat controversial name. Needless to say, butterfly pea is often believed to support feminine health and wellbeing and promote fertility. This makes butterfly pea flowers perfect for spells related to feminine health and wellness, fertility, love, lust, and sex. Add to teas with roses and cinnamon to draw love to you, use in ritual baths to increase lust, or add to spell bags and bottles for similar purposes.

Apart from its uses in healing and love spells, butterfly pea is also associated with protection, purity, and clarity. In Hinduism, the butterfly pea is sacred to the goddess Durga and is often used in prayers as a symbol of purity and spiritual clarity. The name Aparajita is derived from the word "Aparjeo," which means undefeated. As such, butterfly pea flowers can be used in spells and rituals for protection and to connect with the divine. Burn as an incense to open your mind to communicate with the divine, add to altars as an offering, or hang in your home for protection.

Butterfly pea's vibrant color is also believed to symbolize good fortune and prosperity. In Hinduism, butterfly pea is offered to the Shivling on Mondays and Saturdays to ensure the family never suffers from a shortage of money, while it's given to Lord Hanuman on Tuesdays to ensure continued wealth and prosperity. In Thailand, drinks and desserts made from butterfly pea are often served to bring the newlyweds good luck and prosperity. Add butterfly pea to spells and rituals to promote wealth, money, and prosperity.

Butterfly pea can be used in a number of spells, including:
   Protection Spells
   Healing Magic
   Prosperity Rituals
   Love Spells
   Sex Magic
   Peace Magic

Medicinal Uses: Butterfly pea is rich in anthocyanins, an antioxidant known to reduce free radicals and protect against cellular damage. It could potentially lower one's risk for chronic diseases such as heart disease and cancer, slow down the aging process, and support overall immune health. Due to high concentrations of acetylcholine, butterfly pea is often used to improve memory retention and recall, enhance focus, and reduce the risk of cognitive decline. It's also used to relieve stress, enhance mood, and promote sleep. Some studies also suggest butterfly pea may help regulate blood sugar levels and, therefore, can be used to help prevent diabetes in high-risk individuals.

Preparation and Dosage: As an infusion, combine 1 teaspoon butterfly pea flowers with 1 cup of boiling water. Allow the infusion to steep for 5 minutes. Drink up to 3 times a day. As a tincture, take 1-2 milliliters up to 3 times a day. Butterfly pea can also be used in salves to decrease signs of aging.



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Thursday, July 17, 2025

Magical Properties of Mangano Calcite

Magical Properties of Mangano Calcite

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