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Tuesday, September 22, 2026

Children's Book Review: Fern & the First Day of Fall by Kathleen Converse

Children's Book Review: Fern & the First Day of Fall by Kathleen Converse
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What better way to start the first day of fall than with a children's book review on this very topic?! I have not had the pleasure of reviewing any children's books yet on my blog, so I am very excited to bring the first one to all of my readers today. I know many of you have children at home and are looking for witchy reads to share with them.

Fern & the First Day of Fall by Kathleen Converse and illustrated by Hanna Sultanova is the fourth installment in the Wheel of the Year series, which celebrates the seasons and sabbats. As the title suggests, Fern & the First Day of Fall focuses on Mabon and the autumn equinox, offering both a cute story with beautiful illustrations and seasonal spell work!

The story follows Fern as she tries to figure out how to feed her friends and family after a failed harvest due to blistering heat. It combines mundane and magical problem-solving in a very real-world situation. Climate change is ravaging the planet, causing crop failures and ongoing hunger. Combined with inflated prices, recalls, and cuts to SNAP benefits here in the United States, mutual aid is more important than ever to ensure our communities are fed. I loved that Converse tackled these situations in a way that children can understand, without causing anxiety. Instead of focusing on doom and gloom, children are given practical and magical means to approach an ever-changing world.

Children's Book Review: Fern & the First Day of Fall by Kathleen Converse

From an illustration standpoint, Sultanova did an amazing job conveying the story through vivid and inclusive imagery. There are a variety of ethnicities and genders represented, allowing young readers to see themselves in the text. My only complaint is that I wish there were more disability representation present.

The book ends with a brief introduction to Mabon, a discussion of the tarot cards Fern pulled and their meaning, plus journal prompts and a variety of spells children can perform alone or with a trusted adult. The spells range from breathing exercises to divination to recipes.

Children's Book Review: Fern & the First Day of Fall by Kathleen Converse

I am 37 years old and really enjoyed reading Fern & the First Day of Fall by Kathleen Converse. I cannot wait to gift it to one of my witchy friends with a little witchy daughter. I know they are going to absolutely love this book, as well as the others in the collection. I highly recommend picking up a copy for a child (3-7ish) in your life!



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Monday, September 21, 2026

Magical and Medicinal Uses of Elder

Magical and Medicinal Uses of Elder
Gender: Feminine
Planet: Venus
Element: Water
Powers: Exorcism, Healing, Protection
Magical Uses and History: Elder is one of the most magical trees, especially in European folklore, where its history is long and rich. In England, Germany, Denmark, and Scandinavia, the elder tree was believed to be inhabited by the Elder Mother, also known as Lady Elder, Hyldemöer, or Mother of Elves. She was revered and feared, leading to it becoming taboo to cut from her branches, and sometimes even touch her, without permission. In Ireland and Scotland, the spirit of the elder is often unnamed or said to be a fae, but it is inhabited by a spirit nonetheless. Later, as Christianity made its way across the European continent, the spirits of the elder tree turned to witches and the devil, and thus it became unlucky, not just taboo, to cut from the tree or burn its branches, for fear of letting the devil in. Christian myths surrounding the elder are contradictory, with some believing the elder to be the tree from which Judas hung himself after betraying Jesus, while others say the cross from which Jesus was nailed was made of elder. Either way, both contribute to the negative views surrounding the elder tree.

Likely due to the spirit inhabiting the tree and even the unlucky folklore, elder is believed to be a powerful protector. Elder was often planted near houses, worn, or hung in the house above doors and windows to ward off witches, unwanted spirits, and even lightning. In some parts of Scotland, crosses were made of elder and hung in barns and over stables to protect livestock, while drivers of hearses carried whips with handles fashioned from elder to ward off evil. All of this is interesting considering the stigma around cutting branches, but it led to a variety of petitions to cut from the tree. Elder continues to be used in much the same way today, and as before, you should always ask permission before taking from the tree. Add elder branches, leaves, and berries to spells and spell bags/jar for protection, carry on your person to ward off evil, or hang in your home for similar purposes. Plant elder in your yard to protect against lightning and thieves, or use the twigs to create protective charms.

Its association with spirits also likely led to its use in spirit communication. Nicknamed the "Tree of Music" or "Pipe Tree," instruments made from elder were thought to attract the fae, especially when played on sabbats such as Midsummer Eve and Samhain. Playing a flute of elder allows the player to pierce the veil between this world and the next, allowing spirits to be called forth or used to reach an altered state of consciousness. Sitting or sleeping beneath the tree on Midsummer Eve was said to grant one access to the fairy realm, but the risk was great, as you could end up trapped. As such, elder can be used in spells and rituals to connect with the Otherworld, particularly the fae. Play as an instrument or drunk as a wine to induce an altered state of consciousness, place beneath your pillow to enhance prophetic dreaming, or place on ancestral altars during psychopomp work.

Beyond its magical protective uses, elder was also commonly used to treat a variety of ailments. The Greek physician Hoppcrates referred to the elder as a "medicine chest" as it could be used to treat just about everything. The family herbal, first published in 1754, spoke of elder bark's use as a purgative to create edema or congestive heart failure, while the flowers were used to create a cooling ointment and the berries a wine to treat colds and sore throats. In Denmark, records indicate elder was chewed and stuck to or in a wall while saying "Depart thou evil spirit!" to cure toothaches. To cure warts, the wart was either rubbed with elder and buried or was stuck with a pin that was then stuck into an elder tree. Charms of elder were carried to prevent rheumatism and fevers, while elderberries were placed under pillows to cure insomnia. Needless to say, elder has a strong association not only with protection, but also healing, and therefore can be added to spells and rituals for such purposes.

Elder can be used in a number of spells, including:
      Healing Spells
      Protection Magic
      Spirit Work & Communication
      Exorcisms

Medicinal Uses: Elder has long been revered as a cure-all, with its flowers, berries, and leaves being used to create and treat a variety of ailments. The leaves are an emollient and vulnerary and are thus most often used to treat external ailments such as sprains, bruises, and minor wounds. The flowers and berries, on the other hand, are diaphoretic and anticatarrhal, making them perfect for the treatment of colds, flus, and upper respiratory infections such as hay fever and sinusitis. The bark is a purgative, but is no longer used in modern herbal medicine because it contains cyanide-producing compounds.

Preparation and Dosage: To create an infusion, combine a cup of boiling water with 2 teaspoons of dried flowers and leaves. Allow the mixture to infuse for 10 minutes. Drink up to three times a day. As a tincture, take 2-4 milliliters up to three times a day. To create a salve or ointment, combine three parts fresh elderberry leaves with 6 parts melted beeswax, Vaseline, or other carrier oil. Heat on low until leaves are crisp, about 2 hours. Strain and store. Use as needed.


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Monday, September 14, 2026

5 Crystal Grids for Everyday Witchcraft: Protection, Growth, Release & More

5 Crystal Grids for Everyday Witchcraft

Crystal grids are a form of magic that utilizes crystals and geometry to amplify and charge your intention. Over the years, I have featured small crystal grids on my altars and even in my garden blessing spell from several years ago, but it isn't something I often utilize in my own magical practice. That being said, I probably should because they are a powerful way to concentrate energy for a specific purpose.

There are many ways to set up a crystal grid and charge/activate it. The only hard rules are that you should have a central crystal, surround it with complements related to your intention, and activate the grid through energy connection. Sometimes the grid is tied to your intention by writing your intention on a piece of paper and slipping it beneath the central crystal. Other times it is tied to your intention through chanting and activation alone. You can pair your grid with deeper rituals by lighting candles, throwing in some herbs, calling deities, or adding runes and tarot. It is really up to you.

I am not going to go into a complete breakdown or guide to crystal grids here, as many have already covered this topic in great detail online. Instead, I am offering five crystal grids you can use in your everyday witchcraft to bring happiness, peace, growth, courage, and protection into your own life. For each grid, I have included a brief introduction to the grid's purpose, the crystals used, how to set it up, and how to activate and use it for its intended purposes. If you do not happen to have a crystal I suggest, there are plenty of other options. Feel free to switch them out based on what you have or what calls to you.

1. Hearth and Home Grid

Your home should feel like a sanctuary, a place you can come to relax, unwind, and feel loved and cared for. Sometimes, however, inside and outside forces can disrupt the peace you have strived so hard to build. This grid is designed to clear the negativity and replace it with peace, harmony, and happiness, thus creating a welcoming environment.

Center Stone: Clear Quartz
Outer Stones:
  • Black Tourmaline- For grounding and banishing
  • Smoky Quartz- For clearing and grounding
  • Rose Quartz- For love, harmony, and gentleness
  • Amethyst- For peace and relaxation
Layout:
This is a very simple layout. Place the clear quartz in the center and each of the outer crystals at the four cardinal directions to form a square or diamond around the center.

Hearth and Home Crystal Grid

Activation:
Start by moving your hand above the crystals in a circular motion. Visualize the crystals becoming connected with warm light. Continue this visualization until you feel all the stones are connected. Hover your hand over the center clear quartz crystal and visualize your home becoming a warm, protected sanctuary as all the energy of the grid centralizes in the middle. As you do so, say, "May this home be sheltered from harm, grounded in peace, and filled with happiness."

Recharge this grid weekly or monthly, depending on your needs. If your home has been filled with hot tempers, despair, or hardship, you will need to recharge the crystal grid sooner rather than later. If your home has been relatively peaceful, once-a-month maintenance should be fine.

2. The Crossroads Grid

Sometimes we find ourselves at a crossroads, unsure of how to proceed forward. While runes and tarot are always excellent ways to garner glimpses into the future and seek advice, crystal grids can also be used. This crystal grid will help you see the situation clearly and, when paired with journaling, can help you figure out the best road forward.

Center Stone: Labradorite
Outer Stones:
  • Clear Quartz- For clarity
  • Amethyst- To enhance intuition
  • Carnelian- For courage
  • Black Obsidian- To see that which needs to be released
Layout:
Arrange the stones into a crossroads, with the labradorite in the middle, carnelian to the right, clear quartz above, black obsidian to the left, and amethyst below. The labradorite center represents yourself standing at the crossroads seeking answers.

Activation:
Start by moving your hand above the crystals in a circular motion. Visualize the crystals becoming connected with warm light. Continue this visualization until you feel all the stones are connected. Hover your hand over the center of the labradorite and close your eyes. Ask the crystals to illuminate your path forward and guide your decision-making. Keep your mind open to receiving messages from your guides.

Afterwards, journal on the following prompts:
  • What am I afraid to choose?
  • What do I already know?
  • What information am I overlooking?
  • What would each path require from me?
  • Which choice feels like expansion rather than avoidance?

This grid can be disassembled and cleansed after use, or used for the next three days for clarification.

3. Abundant Growth Grid

Looking to bring something into your life or enhance your opportunities for abundance? This is the grid for you! The spiral pattern represents a seed sprouting and blooming, coming to life before your eyes.

Center Stone: Moss Agate
Outer Stones:
  • Green Aventurine- For growth and opportunity
  • Citrine- For confidence and abundance
  • Carnelian- For creativity and motivation
  • Clear Quartz- For amplification
Layout:
Arrange the crystals in a spiral pattern, moving inward toward the moss agate in the center. Alternate the crystals as you do so.

Abundance Crystal Grid

Activation:
Before activating, place your written intention beneath the center moss agate. Be sure to be clear about what you are trying to manifest in your life. Vague statements that are not quantifiable or easily defined are difficult for the Universe to interpret and fulfill. If you are looking for a new job or to earn more money, be clear in the type of job you are looking for or the amount of money you wish to earn. Give a time frame for the spell, and as many specifics as possible, while also leaving yourself open to better options. I usually like to end such manifestation requests with "...or better," so the Universe knows I am open to the best option available. Don't pigeon-hole your abundance! Once you have written your intention, fold it three times toward you before placing it under the moss agate.

Once your written intention is placed, hover your hand over the end of the spiral and trace the spiral inward, visualizing the crystals connecting with warm golden or green light. As you repeat this spiral movement and visualization, chant, "Seed below, roots running deep; What I nurture, I may keep. With patience, care, and hands that tend, may this intention bloom without end." Continue chanting and tracing until you feel the grid has been activated and your message sent.

Keep this grid active by recharging weekly until your goal has been achieved.

4. Waning Moon Release Grid

While I am not a witch to follow the moon's movement through the night sky, its power is not lost on me. The waning moon is associated with release, breaking patterns, and endings, and this crystal grid can help you harness these energies in your spell work to achieve your goals.

Center Stone: Black Obsidian
Outer Stones:
  • Smoky Quartz- For grounding and release
  • Selenite- For cleansing and transition
  • Amethyst- For acceptance and reflection
  • Clear Quartz- For amplification
Layout:
Arrange the crystals as seen below, radiating outward from the central black obsidian.

Waning Moon Release Grid

Activation:
Before activating, write down what you want to release, fold it three times away from you, and place it underneath the black obsidian. Light a candle, preferably black, and begin tracing your hand over the crystals in a counterclockwise motion while chanting, "What has completed its work may leave. What no longer belongs to me may return to the earth. I make room for what comes next." Visualize ties being severed and all unwanted energies leaving your body. Repeat this ritual for 3 nights in a row, relighting the candle each night.

5. Sunfire Courage Grid

Lately, everything has felt very overwhelming, at least for me. Courage is not always running into battle unafraid. Courage most often manifests as choosing to get up each morning, brush your teeth, get dressed, and go to work or run errands, despite the feelings of darkness threatening to consume you. Living your life, despite your anxiety or depression, is courageous. Choosing to live is courageous. If you find yourself struggling or you have a big event coming up, this grid will help you find the courage to get things done.

Center Stone: Citrine
Outer Stones:
  • Carnelian- For courage and creative fire
  • Tiger's Eye- For confidence, strength, and grounding
  • Sunstone- For vitality and optimism
  • Clear Quartz- For amplification and focus
Layout:
Arrange the crystals in a sunburst with citrine in the middle and the other crystals radiating outward like rays of sunlight, as seen below.

Activation:
Start by moving your hand above the crystals in a circular motion. Visualize the crystals becoming connected with warm light. Continue this visualization until you feel all the stones are connected. Hover your hand over the middle citrine and say, "I know my strength. I trust my voice. I meet the world with courage." Take in a deep breath, straighten your spine, and rise to your full height. Visualize yourself exuding courage and strength, overcoming the obstacles in your life.

If you need courage for a specific upcoming event, use the crystal grid before and disassemble it after you have achieved your goal. If you are looking for ongoing strength and courage, continue recharging the grid every 3-7 days or as needed.

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Whether you use these grids or not, I hope I have inspired you to incorporate more crystals and crystal grids into your magical practice. Now get out there and do some magic!


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Monday, September 7, 2026

Magical Properties of Angelite

Magical Properties of Angelite


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Monday, August 31, 2026

The Sacred Act of Paying Attention

The Sacred Act of Paying Attention

Observing is one of the simplest, and perhaps most profound, ways we can begin to develop a spiritual relationship with the living world. For this reason, observation is the foundation of spirit ecology. Cultures throughout history have engaged in rituals involving quiet observation to either connect with oneself, the natural world, or the Otherworld. Such practices include the Nordic Ãºtiseta, Greek incubations, and the Indian Sakshi Bhava, among numerous others. And while all of these practices differ greatly, at their core they are forms of ritual observation.

In modern times, many of us have become disconnected from our ancestral roots and struggle to sit and observe without action for any lengthy period, causing us to miss quite a lot of information in the process. We have fallen into the trap of only noticing that which demands our attention at a specific moment in time: the traffic light, the weather forecast, the phone vibrating in your pocket. Everything else is drowned out. There is a particular kind of magic, however, in noticing something for the very first time, not because the thing itself just appeared, but because we have finally taken the time to notice it. Slowly, almost imperceptibly, the landscape begins to reveal itself.

However, even when we intentionally seek connection with nature as part of our spiritual practice, it can be tempting to approach the natural world with an agenda. We go outside looking for signs and messages or searching for magical meanings and tools before we have learned anything about the environment we are in. Modern, Eurocentric, esoteric thought perpetuates the idea that we are above the natural world and therefore can take freely from it. Spirit ecology directly opposes this mindset, reinforcing that we are but a single part of a very complex, interconnected system and encourages practitioners to observe before interpreting.

Observation Before Interpretation

As mentioned above, modern spiritual traditions often teach us to look for meaning in the natural world around us. Seminars, courses, books, forums, and other sources of esoteric knowledge teach us the symbolism of animals, plants, stones, weather patterns, dreams, and celestial bodies. We learn that certain animals are associated with particular deities or spirits, plants have specific correspondences, and that different natural occurrences are omens. There is value in this symbolic language, but learning correspondences, associations, and signs encourages us to skip a critically important step: observation.

For example, I saw a crow this morning while feeding the stray cats in my neighborhood. Modern approaches to witchcraft and spirit work would have me ask, "What does the crow mean?" Spirit ecology, however, encourages us to ask a different question: "What is the crow actually doing?"

For me, the crow was sitting in a dying pine tree across the street, calling to a neighboring crow who was occasionally answering. In other instances, the crows may be circling, flying down to the grass in search of food before flying back into a nearby tree, or sitting quietly. Sometimes I observe the same behavior multiple days in a row, while other times they behave differently. This distinction between observation and interpretation may seem small, but it changes our relationship with the natural world and allows us to better interpret the messages the Otherworld may be sending us.

While observation is not necessarily more spiritual than interpretation, it's important that we know the difference. The crow sitting in the tree, calling three times, is an observation, while the crow is warning me of something is an interpretation. When we become accustomed to interpreting before observing, we can accidentally turn the natural world into a collection of symbols designed to speak exclusively about us. A bird becomes an omen rather than a bird. A tree becomes a magical correspondence rather than a living organism. A fox becomes a messenger rather than an animal going about its own life. And let's be real, the world does not revolve around you; you are merely a participant in a fascinatingly complex system. Observation gives the earth its independence back.

Becoming a Witness & the Practice of the Sit Spot

The more time we spend practicing observation, the more our understanding of spirituality can change. In becoming a witness, rather than an interpreter, we recognize that relationships do not always begin with communication, but sometimes with recognition. This is one reason observation belongs at the heart of spirit ecology. Before we can develop meaningful relationships with plants, animals, waterways, landscapes, ancestors, spirits, or other-than-human beings, we have to become capable of noticing that they exist independently of our attention. We have to become witnesses.

Part of becoming a better observer, and therefore interpreter, is being able to recognize patterns. A singular observation can be interesting, but repeated observation allows for deeper connection to form, and that is where one finds wisdom. This is something scientists have understood for a long time, and why multiple trials and observations are needed before anything can be considered conclusive. It's all well and good to see a drug work for one person, but we can't distribute it to the masses until many people see the same results. This same exercise can and should be applied to our own practice.

If you see a particular bird once, you may remember it. If you see that bird every morning for several weeks, you begin to recognize its habits. You may learn where it tends to perch, what time it arrives, which other birds it associates with, and how its behavior changes with the weather. You develop a familiarity that can better inform your interpretation of the information you are receiving. Is the Otherworld really trying to speak to you, or are you just observing a bird living its best life?

There has been a push lately to engage in local witchcraft, meaning working with the land, spirits, and beings where you live. Consistent observation is necessary for this, as much as it is for spirit ecology. Instead of knowing about trees, you know which trees bloom first, keep their leaves the longest, or produce the best fruit. The turning of the year becomes less about fixed dates and more about the real changes in your area, the signs that a new season has begun. Most observations are not omens, but they are no less valuable as they teach us how our home works. Over time, these patterns become a sort of ecological literacy upon which we can begin forming relationships.

One of the best ways to engage in observation and recognition is repeated exposure through spending time in the same space for days, weeks, and months. This is a concept known as a sit spot, a particular outdoor place that you return to regularly for the sole purpose of observing. In ecology, this is done fairly often during research to record changes in an ecosystem over time, a concept easily applied to spirit ecology.

Begin by picking an outdoor location in your area to observe. It does not need to be wilderness, especially if you do not live or work nearby. Your backyard, garden, neighborhood park, or apartment balcony can act as your sit spot. Try to pick an outdoor location where you feel comfortable working magic in the future, or at least working with the spirits of that place. This is why being closer to your home is better.

Once you have picked a spot, dedicate time to visit and observe. Spend at least 10 minutes (preferably 30 minutes to an hour) just observing. You may be tempted to interpret what you see and experience, but now is not the time. Instead, focus on what is happening around you. Listen to the sounds. Watch for movement of leaves, insects, wildlife, and the clouds. Notice the quality and quantity of light. Also take note of the things you do not see. Do you feel any spirits around? Make sure to turn around in your sit spot to observe the world from multiple perspectives. You can even spend time lying, staring up at the sky through the leaves.

Then come back as often as possible for at least a year. Return at different times of the day and when the weather and seasons shift. Keep returning at different times (including at night if possible), taking note of the changes you see around you. Note what is familiar, such as the individual animals, and what is unfamiliar on each visit. Over time, patterns will begin to emerge as the ecosystem becomes more familiar.

Nature Journaling and Seasonal Tracking

While visiting and observing your sit spot, I encourage you to keep a nature journal to track your observations and the changes you see over time. Journaling helps preserve your familiarity and make patterns more recognizable over time. This also acts as a reference, allowing you to determine if something is a potential sign or message versus a normal occurrence in the ecosystem.

While in your sit spot, write down the date, location, weather, and any observations you make while visiting. Describe the wildlife and their behavior, changes in plant life and appearance, sounds you hear, and even how you feel. Feel free to sketch what you observe as well, but avoid using electronic devices while engaging in this activity if possible. Our phones have a tendency to pull us out of a moment, disconnecting us from our environment. The purpose of this activity is to foster connection with the world around you, not the world inside your device.

A useful approach to journaling is to begin with the following three statements:
  • I notice...
  • I wonder...
  • It reminds me of...
These are very similar questions I have my students answer when introducing science phenomena. They get you thinking about what you are seeing, hearing, or otherwise observing. "I notice..." keeps you grounded in the task of observation, while "It reminds me of..." and "I wonder..." create space for curiosity, symbolism, memory, and personal connection. While journaling, remember to be as descriptive as possible. The more you write, the easier it will be to recognize patterns.

The goal here is not to eliminate interpretation or the receiving of signs or spirit communication. Instead, it's to help ground you in the practice of observation so that later messages can be easily received and utilized. Over the course of a year, your entries will become your ecological record, so when something changes, you will notice. This attention inevitably leads us toward relationship because the more closely we look, the harder it becomes to see the natural world as a collection of isolated things. A flower is connected to the insects that visit it, who are connected to birds and other animals that eat them. The more we observe, the more we begin to see these connections.


Exercise: Learning to Notice

Over the next month, focus on slowing down, observing, and reconnecting with place by engaging in the following activities:
  • Sit outside for 10 minutes without your phone.
  • Learn the names of three plants and three animals near your home.
  • Observe sunrise or sunset for several days.
  • Track weather patterns.
  • Notice where water flows in your environment.
  • Take a slow, intentional walk/hike.

Follow these activities up with the following journal prompts.
  • What does “belonging to a place” mean to you?
  • What have I ignored because I move too quickly?
  • What rhythms exist around me independent of human schedules?
  • What changes when I approach nature as a community instead of scenery?


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Observation encourages us to move beyond the idea that nature is simply a collection of magical resources waiting to be used, and instead allows us to see the vast interconnected system that is our natural world. Herbs become plants with ecological relationships, animals become members of communities, water becomes a living system, and the land becomes something we inhabit rather than merely something we visit.

In the next post, we will learn about reciprocity and how nature is not a resource to be consumed, so keep an eye out in the next month or so for more.


Spirit Ecology Series



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